As
 a Muslim I don’t want sympathies, what I want is what everyone wants, a
 sense of security and letting me live my life as others live theirs. 
Throw me in a jail for the crimes I commit, but don’t blame me or my 
religion for the acts someone else commits. As
 fellow Americans this is what you can do for the other members of the 
family of faiths, and become a consistent voice to propagate the 
following narratives…. in the text below. Mike Ghouse
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May 12, 2016, Rockville, MD – The Faith 
Leaders response team of Montgomery County’s Faith community working 
group held their monthly interfaith meeting at the Unitarian 
Universalist Congregation of Rockville.
The MCPD Asst. Chief Darryl McSwain and 
Asst. Chief Luther Reynolds, and MC Fire Chief, Scott Goldstein shared 
their perspectives in developing safe communities.  Both the departments
 offer facility orientation programs, that is,  training and preparing 
the members of worship places to ‘what if’ scenarios in case of a gunman
 walking in,  a fire breaks out or any other untowardly events.
Montgomery County Faith Leaders – Photo Courtesy: Chuck Lee
 
Rev. Dr. Carol Flett facilitated the meeting attended by nearly 30 individuals representing many faith communities.
A member from each table shared the 
general conversation of his or her given table.  From our table, we 
shared the needs of various communities. Imam Hadji Sall from Silver 
Springs Mosque talked about the space needs for his Mosque, he and I 
have agreed to have a discussion and present the possible solutions to 
the group. There was an acknowledgement needed for bullying that goes on
 with Hindu kids along with Muslim and Sikh kids, Richa from the 
Chinmaya Mission shared that information.
Rabbi Gerry Serotta, Executive director 
of interfaith council of Washington shared about the upcoming Interfaith
 Bridge Builders Awards on June 2, event as a head of the Interfaith 
council of Metropolitan Washington, one of the pastors shared that they 
pray for the both the victims and the offenders in case of crises.  Of 
course, Scott Goldstein shared what the Fire Department does in case of 
crises, he made it little humorous about catching the animals.
I found the following powerful quote 
from the signature line of Rev. Dr. Carol Flett worth sharing, as it 
resonated with the theme of the verse 49:13 from Quran that I have been 
elaborating on for over 15 years. It is a Martin Luther King Quote, “”…I
 am convinced that men hate each other because they fear each other. 
They fear each other because they don’t know each other, and they don’t 
know each other because they don’t communicate with each other, and they
 don’t communicate with each other because they are separated from each 
other.”
It was a joy to meet with Dr. Ajaib 
Singh Siddhu and his wife Hema, who are also friends with Dr. Harbans 
Lal since their college days. Hema said she and Harbans graduated from 
the same college same year one got the PhD and the other D. Lit.  Dr. 
Lal is a father figure to me, and I have always admired him and continue
 to seek his wisdom from time to time.
Great food, the families brought in so many varieties of vegetarian food that I have enjoyed at the Jain Temples in the past.
PROPOSAL TO THE GROUP
I am pleased to propose to the group, 
that in one of the upcoming meetings, we can facilitate a talk on the 
First Amendment; we will also hold a workshop on First Amendment at our 
facility at the United Methodist building soon. There is a continual 
need to understand the first amendment on a regular basis.  Please let 
me know the first time slot available to do this.
The discussion on how we are dealing 
with the recent violent incidents in Paris, Brussels, Lahore and our 
County, with members of our congregations. Let’s discuss practical ways 
we can reduce anxiety and xenophobia in our own communities, and 
continue to build a socially cohesive and compassionate county.
I am pleased to share my write up.
Dealing with violent incidents in Paris, Brussels, Lahore and here in the United States
The bottom line of every religion, 
government and the society is to create cohesive societies that function
 well, where rule of law is the norm, and where no one has to live in 
fear, or apprehension of the fellow beings.
It is our duty to keep law and order and faithfully guard the safety of 
every citizen. Hate is one of the many sources of disrupting peace in a 
society, and it is our responsibility to track down the source of such 
hate and work on mitigating it.  Ultimately, my safety hinges on safety 
of others around me.
There is wisdom in the saying, “Sin is 
the problem and not the sinner” when we focus on the sin, there is a 
chance to redeem the individual from the sin, where as if we attack the 
sinner, we will kill the chances of redemption. The idea is to single 
out the cause for the situation and work on finding solutions.
Similarly, we single out the criminal 
responsible for the crime,  and not  blame his or her spouse, parents, 
siblings, kids, family members, rabbi, imam, pastor, Pundit or religious
 leader, mayor of the town, governor of the state, president of the 
country or the religion.
If a rapist is running around in our neighborhood, everyone gets 
apprehensive and makes sure the doors are locked, alarm is set and 
family members are guarded. The moment that creep is caught, everyone 
sighs and takes a deep breath of relief.
What’s happened here is,  the “trust” is
 restored in the community; people feel safe and start living their 
normal life again.  There is nothing like feeling secure.  Indeed, 
Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) work was to build secure societies and he 
likened the sense of security to mother’s lap where the child feels 
secure. No matter what is happening to him/her, the child knows he or 
she is safe in her mother’s lap, the child knows mother will take care 
of him/her.  Mother is one’s security and trust is the key.
The Prophet vision of a civilized 
society was when a single woman loaded with Jewelry and fine clothing 
could go from the City of Madinah to the City of Damascus and return 
without being harassed, chased or robbed of her dignity. That was the 
kind of civility he had envisaged.   A majority of Muslims got that 
message right and have become the source of such civility; however a few
 did not get it and we have to work with them.
Those who did not get their religion 
right, no matter what religion, region or race they belong to cause 
death and destruction. The list is endless; Brussels, Paris, Grand 
Bassam, Ankara, Gaza, Mumbai, Bali, Abu Ghraib, Afghanistan, Iraq and 
several more across the globe including the latest rampages of ISIS. 
  Here at home we have San Bernardino along 354 Mass murders in 2015.   
Individuals wear suicide vests and hurt others, while nations wrap mega 
ton bombs to their fighter jets and destroy nations and cities.  All of 
us should reflect on the ugliness embedded in a few men from each one of
 our faiths.
There is not a religion out there that 
preaches discrimination or hatred for others.  Isn’t that the case with 
Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism or any faith?  Religion 
doesn’t teach, but the Guardians make a villain out of God towards 
others. God is not a villain, he/she/ it is about justness, fairness, 
equity and kindness to the entire creation.
What can we do to cut down the fear mongering and pitting every one against Muslims?
As a Muslim I don’t want sympathies, 
what I want is what everyone wants, a sense of security and letting me 
live my life as others live theirs. Throw me in a jail for the crimes I 
commit, but don’t blame me or my religion for the acts someone else 
commits.
As fellow Americans this is what you can
 do for members of the family of faiths, and become  a consistent voice 
to propagate the following narratives;
- Individuals or cult leaders are responsible for their crimes and not
 anyone else.  Let’s not even blame their parents, pastors, mayors, or 
their religion or their nation.
- We bring justice by punishing the criminals and restore trust in the
 society, no one but the criminal is responsible for his or her acts.
- Religion is like the Nuclear power, in the right hands it is 
beneficial to the mankind, but in the wrong hands, it brings death and 
destruction.   Neither religion is bad nor the nuclear power; it is the 
users and abusers who are good or bad.
- We absolve religion from any blame, as religion is an intangible 
entity which you cannot kill, kick, murder, slaughter, hang, shoot or 
bury. Trust cannot be restored in the society by barking aimlessly in 
the dark.
- War on terror is a dumb idea; it should be war on ignorance through education and knowledge.
References:
Dr. Mike Ghouse is a community consultant, social scientist, thinker, writer, news maker, Interfaith Wedding officiant, and a speaker on Pluralism, Interfaith, Islam, politics, terrorism, human rights, India, Israel-Palestine, motivation,
 and foreign policy. He is committed to building cohesive societies and 
offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. Visit him (63 links) 
at www.TheGhousediary.com