Interfaith Speaker Mike Ghouse: Interfaith Marriages

Saturday, February 6, 2016

Interfaith Marriages

It is disappointing to many a religiously oriented first-time marrying couples. Their clergy or a parent invariably insists that the other person to convert to their faith tradition, some do, and some fake it and some are not comfortable with the idea at all.

When a couple is deeply committed to marry, they go ahead and get married any way but sorely miss out on the ceremony. Over the years, I have seen too many couples miss out on the joy of that additional sense of completeness that comes with a religious ceremony. Marriage is between two individuals, and their families and friends ought to be supporters and cheerleaders to celebrate and complete their joy.

As a Pluralist, I have chosen to officiate the weddings of such couples to reflect the essence of Bride and Groom's tradition. I laud such couples who embrace genuine humanity by respecting the otherness of other, and accepting each other's uniqueness. If the couple prefers to please the religiosity of their parents, relatives and friends, the sermon would include reflections and essence of the faith of the couple.

I am blessed to have performed some uniquely beautiful combination of weddings; Jewish Bride and a Christian groom; Muslim bride and Jain groom, Hindu Bride and Muslim groom, Christians Bride and Atheist groom..... it was such a joy to see their families cheer at the end.

I had a difficult father of a Christian groom who was vehemently against the Hindu girl marrying without conversion, he did not even want to be a part of the wedding, but I felt, a good heart to heart conversation will make a dent, and it did. The man who did not talk with his son for two months and did not want to be a part of the wedding was grateful for the semblance of Christian wedding and then hung out with the kids for celebrations. Oh, there are lots of good stories to share.

By the way, officiating wedding is not my business, I do it for the joy for fulfilling the religious needs of the couples.

Mike Ghouse is a member of the American Marriage Ministries, a non-profit established in Washington State in 2009.

"We provide all people the ability to celebrate marriage and other religious functions according to their beliefs. We believe that this is an innate human right and is also protected by the 1st Amendment. Our values come from the understanding that all people, whether religious or not, have deep personal values and should be treated with respect, acceptance, and understanding."

Marriage is a celebration that brings people together, and we want to extend that ethos further by being a church comprised of a wide cross-section of people that have found common ground in the service of bringing people together.

To begin, the legal dimension to officiating a wedding simply involves completing a piece of paper, the marriage license. The marriage license is the legal document of marriage. It is filed for by the couple from their local government prior to the wedding.

The role of the minister is to conduct the wedding, have the couple present their marriage license, make sure that the information is correct, and complete the license. The couple then returns the completed license back to its office of issuance.

Personally, Mike is committed to building a Cohesive America and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. He is a professional speaker, thinker and a writer on pluralism, interfaith, politics and civic affairs.

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Dr. Mike Ghouse is a community consultant, social scientist, thinker, writer, news maker, and a speaker on Pluralism, Interfaith, Islam, politics, terrorism, human rights, India, Israel-Palestine and foreign policy. He is committed to building cohesive societies and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. Visit him in 63 links at www.MikeGhouse.net for his writings at TheGhousediary.com and several blogs listed there in.

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Interfaith Radio, wisdom of religion, all the beautiful religions

Pastor Robert Jeffress was challenged to find the truth

Pastor Robert Jeffress of Dallas (unfortunately representing the First Baptist Church of Dallas) called Quraan an evil book written by a false prophet, his congregants rewarded him with a standing ovation. However it cannot be the church doctrine, it was his individual take. Mike visited the pastor to offer the right translation of the Quraan so he can find the truth and share with his congregation. It was followed by interviews on Local Fox News and NBC channels, followed by Dallas Morning News exchanges leading to Quraan Conference to demystify the myths. Mike’s challenge to the Pastor was to “find me three verses in Quraan that are evil, and if you do, I will join your ministry.” The pastor has blown the opportunity to harvest the poor souls; he chickened out from holding the conversation on his turf in his church. Details, videos and write up at www.QuraanConference.com

Interfaith experiments, public understanding of other religions

Religious leaders representing different religions were asked to share about their religion in three sentences, then towards the end of the program audience was randomly given to read (other than their own religion) a 100 word summary of each one of the religions. It was an eye opener for the people to see the difference in what the media and the politicians say, and the holy books of the respective religions say. You have to read it yourselves the whole paragraph or chapter and not a sentence to get a fuller picture.

Interfaith Solidarity; standing up for the Gazans and the Israelis.

Arab Imams on Interfaith

I thank God for presenting limitless opportunities to talk about the Pluralistic values embedded in Islam and Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) being an interfaith dialoguer. I have been a small part of the interfaith dialogue movement in Saudi Arabia, which began in 2003 in Dallas. In 2010 about twelve Arab Imams visited Dallas and I hosted the luncheon to talk about Interfaith in Islam. I can sum this up in one sentence, “those imams were ahead of us in pluralism in Islam, for every sentence I uttered, they produced Prophets Sayings and verses from Quraan.” God willing one major good is going to come out of it; stopping the printing and distribution of mistranslated Quraan by Muslims; Al-Hilali translation.

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2. Check these facts

3. Mike’s Profiles

4. List of Articles

5. Experiments in Interfaith

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Dr. Mike Ghouse is a community consultant, social scientist, thinker, writer, news maker, Interfaith Wedding officiant, and a speaker on Pluralism, Interfaith, Islam, politics, terrorism, human rights, India, Israel-Palestine, motivation, and foreign policy. He is committed to building cohesive societies and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. Visit him (63 links) at www.MikeGhouse.net and www.TheGhousediary.com for his exclusive writings.

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CHECK THESE FACTS

Over 3000 articles have been published; of which nearly a 1000 are on interfaith and pluralism matters, 250 alone at Dallas Morning news and about 150 at Huffington post and the rest at several Newspapers and magazines. Another 1000 on many aspects of Islam, and the rest of the 1000+ on foreign policy, politics, tributes, sports, movies and cultural items.

700 Hours of Radio Show on “Wisdom of religion, all the beautiful religions” was aired in 2003-2004-2005.

26 Workshops, wisdom of Religions from Atheist to Zoroastrian and every one in between 2 sets of 13 workshops was organized in Dallas in 2004-2005.

I am blessed to be a part of every faith tradition; you can Google search the following phrases for amazing results.

1. Atheist Mike Ghouse

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5. Hindu Mike Ghouse

6. Jain Mike Ghouse

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8. Native American Mike Ghouse

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10. Sikh Mike Ghouse

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God has blessed me with the ability to stand up for every one, and I have to complete compiling the list, meanwhile, you can check these out.

1. Standing up for Atheists -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/speaking-up-for-atheists.html

2. Standing up for Christians -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/01/standing-with-christians.html

3. Standing up for Hindus -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/04/standing-with-hindus.html

4. Standing up for Jews -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/02/standing-up-with-jews.html

5. Standing up for Sikhs -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/08/standing-up-for-sikhs.html

6. Standing up GLBT -http://standingupforothers.blogspot.com/2012/05/standing-up-for-gays-and-lesbians.html

7. Standing up for Immigrants -http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrjU0KULv-Y

8. Standing up for others - to be completed.

In Genuine interfaith dialogue, we respect the otherness of others and never claim our faith to be superior to the other, as that amounts to arrogance, and religion is about humility that builds bridges and communities and not arrogance which kills relationships and breeds conflicts.

All religions are about peace.

I am blessed to be open with all faith traditions, and I treat them as systems that are meant to help an individual achieve his or her own peace.

Dr. Mike Ghouse is a community consultant, social scientist, thinker, writer, news maker, and a speaker on Pluralism, Interfaith,Islam,politics, terrorism,human rights, India, Israel-Palestine and foreign policy. He is committed to building cohesive societiesand offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. Visit him in 63 links at www.MikeGhouse.net for his writings at TheGhousediary.com and several blogs listed there in.

Interfaith Speaker Mike Ghouse

FAITH IS IN THE HEART OF THE BELIEVER AS BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER
http://www.foundationforpluralism.com/

An interfaith Speaker, thinker, organizer and an activist committed to building cohesive societies with a firm belief that the purpose of religion is to bring harmony to an individual within and create a balance with what surrounds; life and matter. If we can learn to respect and accept everywhich way people have come to worship the creator, then conflicts fade and solutions emerge.

Mike is a frequent guest on Fox News, (The Hannity Show), and has been interviewed on nationally syndicated Radio shows along with Dallas TV, Print and Radio networks and occasional interviews on NPR. He is a member of the Texas Faith panel of Dallas Morning News and writes on issues facing the nation every week. He has spoken at international forums including the Council for a Parliament of the World’s Religions, in Melbourne, Australia, Middle East Peace Initiative, in Jerusalem, the International Leadership conference, in Hawaii, in Washington, and elsewhere.

Concerned by the divisiveness, he saw the need to bring Americans together and founded America Together Foundation committed to building a cohesive America, indeed it is in response to ACT America which is bent on pitching one American against the other. We will be holding series of educational programs, conferences and workshops to address the issues that divide us such as Civil Right, GLBT, Quraan, Abortion, anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, Racial Profiling and Stereotyping.

Religion is about humility and not arrogance; some day, I would like to see the interfaith dialogue reach its peak when every one of can declare that my religion is beautiful to me as yours is to you; my religion brings solace to me as yours to you and now I hereby proclaim that my religion is not superior or inferior to any, it is another pathway to find peace and I thank God for giving me the Guidance to proclaim that as far back as 2001. To claim mine is superior is arrogance, and spirituality and arrogance are inversely proportional to each other. Greater the arrogance lower the religiosity and vice-versa.

To be religious is to be a peace maker, one who seeks to mitigate conflicts and nurtures goodwill for peaceful co-existence of humanity. God wants us to live in peace and harmony with his creation; Life and Matter. Over 1000 articles have been published on a range of topics on interfaith, pluralism and Islam. Many a videos have been produced on the topic and we are yet to upload them, here is one of the shortest one delivered at the City of Carrollton. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Git_8Grd3A

The Foundation for Pluralism champions the idea of co-existence by respecting and accepting the otherness of those different from ourselves. The World Muslim Congress is committed to nurturing the pluralistic ideals embedded in Islam, many are not aware that Islam teaches Pluralism. Heavily involved in both, Mike Ghouse is committed to building cohesive societies and has produced outstanding public events to bring Americans together of different religions, ethnicities and races on common grounds of building a safe and secure America.

He is a speaker, thinker, collaborator and a writer on the subjects of Pluralism, the interfaith movement, cohesive societies, Islam, India, hope and world peace. Over 1000 articles of Mike’s have been published worldwide and two books are poised to be released this summer. His work is reflected in 4 websites and 27 Blogs indexed at http://www.mikeghouse.net/

Mike Ghouse is committed to building cohesive societies and offers pluralistic solutions to media and to the public on important and complex issues of the day and is available to speak in a variety of settings such as schools, seminars, conferences, and places of worship, or the work place. He welcomes all questions and will address the fears many have about Islam. He welcomes questions concerning misunderstandings about violence (jihad) and women's rights and other issues.

Mike Ghouse

(214) 325-1916
Ghousespeaks@gmail.com

Experiments in Religion, Standing in others shoes

39 Individuals were called in from audience to form 13 groups of 4 each. The groups were given a statement, verse or the wisdom (atheism) of each faith they represented randomly. No person was assigned his or her own religion but religions were assigned by drawing. Every group was to read and share their understanding of that religion, the idea was to stand in others shoes, and it was one of the most successful experiments in religion. Each one of the participant loved being a Jew, Zoroastrian, a Hindu, a Christian, Muslim or the other. When we read the book for real and not go by hearsay, our hearts and minds will open up to the wisdom of every religion, thus learning about each other first hand fades the conflicts fade and paves the way for solution. (Speech)

Interfaith historic experiment; the Quraan Conference

This was a historic conference; it has never been done in the history of the world, where “troublesome” verses from Quraan were explained by non-Muslim clergy. Myths are manufactured about Quraan without any substantiation; it is an old business of maligning others to have a gain. The purpose of this conference was to remove such myths in an open public forum and restore the cohesiveness of our society to build a safe and secure America. With the audience participation, we narrowed down “60 troublesome verses” down to “10”. Ten clergy from faiths other than Islam read, and explained the verses while the Imams were there as observer, this has Details are in the link Qur’aan Conference

Interfaith initiative - Pluralism Prayers at Carrollton City Hall

Carrollton is one city where the tradition of Pluralism has gained roots, Mike Ghouse opens the council meeting with a wish/ prayers, it is an all inclusive prayer where no citizen of Carrollton feels left out including those who do not subscribe to the idea of God that most of us do. The Mayors Becky Miller and Ron Branson and the Council members have been graceful hosts to the prayers. If we want every one of the residents to live without apprehension of the other, we have to build cohesive societies.

Interfaith Solidarity; standing up with Jews, GLBT and Immigrants

When Pastor Fred Phelps demonstrated his hate messages against Jews, Catholics (Mexicans) and GLBT in Dallas. Mike stood up with the Jews, Immigrants and the GLBT groups and joined them in most places of demonstrations; Holocaust Museum, Synagogues, Texas Jewish Post and Akiba Academy. Mike led the pluralism prayers every place and at the Museum he gathered the Holocaust survivors together and prayed for the safety and well being of everyone, the haters and the hated. Why should we stand up for others? Check out http://www.mikeghouse.net/Standing.up.for.others.asp.

Interfaith shows, a skit about Stereotyping

The GLBT Coalition of Dallas led by Turtle Creek Chorale put together a program at Myerson Symphony Hall to share the effects of stereotyping on societies. A skit on stereotyping it was played out for two nights. In the pic are Reem and I representing Muslims, Ms. Madono Dallas City Council woman representing Hispanics and a gentleman representing the African American experience. I am blessed to participate and appreciate the embrace from every community of Dallas. We have to create a society where we learn to know about each other, with that conflicts fade and solutions emerge.

Interfaith Experience with the Maya Tradition

It was an incredible experience being with the Maya people and praying with them on top of the world, I believe the Maya people were not allowed to pray in their own temples and the Priest told us that it was the first time we were able to get there and pray. Each one of us shared our own blessings and I shared the Muslim blessings in Arabic and could not resist chanting Hindu Prayers in Sanskrit as I felt the spirit of it in the snooty (Underground well) where there was a sanctuary in a dug out wall, almost like a Hindu Temple without a deity. It was a trip arranged by Mary Ann Thompson-Frenk. Link to pictures and articles will be added.

Interfaith prayers with the Hopi, Toltec and Shinto Traditions

It is the devotion that really matters, each one of the priests form Shinto, Hopi and Toltec prayed at the ground breaking ceremony of the Maya Center in Mexico. They were connecting with the universal energy in their own ways and it was such a beautiful experience to witness how we seek to be in tune with the nature and its creator. I was moved to say the Jain prayers where every teacher and element of nature is honored and of course I share the Islamic prayers for the well being of the humanity. A majority of humanity connects with the essence of every tradition that goes beyond rituals and I hope all humanity see that one day and it is my commitment to communicate that message of goodwill to every one I know through my speeches and writings.